Parents want their children to succeed in school. They want them to behave in class, do their homework, and benefit from the knowledge that a good education gives them. And in general, they trust that teachers can help them achieve this. Teachers usually welcome parents interested in their child's education. They know the difference a caring and attentive parent can make in a child's life.

Some teachers may feel their "turf" is invaded and fear that parents may undermine their authority. They may communicate to parents that "the teacher knows best" and discourage them from getting involved. It is well-known that teachers communicate with parents most often when the child misbehaves.

It is important to let parents know what their child is doing well. This helps them respond more to areas where their child needs help. Calling parents with good news about a child's progress strengthens the teacher-parent relationship. It is true that teachers are sometimes frustrated to see that parents cannot be convinced to support their child's education. Every body knows how little time a teacher has to promote this one-to-one interaction, but he/she can perhaps try these three little strategies:

Be personal. Although there is little time to write personal messages for every student, the relationship with parents can be improved when parents read something personal about their child. Try this at least once a term for each student.

Be practical. Communicate with parents about the syllabus. Suggest what parents can do to help their child overcome his/her difficulties with schoolwork.

Be honest. Don’t be scared to answer parents' concerns. If you are using a method that raises questions, explain its benefits and ask them to evaluate it later on.

Of course, there will always be the frustration of some parents who are not ready or willing to support their child's education. Then, you must accept that there are factors that lie beyond your control.

Parents and teachers have the same goal in mind when it comes to their students. They have a major influence on their children’s success. Their involvement can improve students’ academic achievement, behaviour and motivation, reduce absenteeism and foster a positive attitude toward school life. While parental involvement is sometimes restricted to the PTA contribution, individual communication between teachers and parents is still what helps the student make the most of school life. Armed with a few strategies and an understanding of what parents need, teachers can help them become better partners in their child's education.

<B>M. C. L.</B>